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‘Tis the season.

Parties, huge meals, home baked goodies, sugar plums, candy canes and eggnog are just a few of the temptations we face at this time of year.

So many people toss up their hands and let slide all the progress they made toward their health goals in the previous months, figuring that the temptation of the season, the sense of guilt and obligation to enjoy friendly food gifts or thoughtful meals or even just the frantic busyness is no match for their will power.  Are the holidays really that hopeless?

I believe it is possible, with the following healthy holiday tips, to get through the season so that come January you still feel good about your progress, you still feel like you’ve honoured yourself and your health program, and you’re not rushing off to buy a gym membership in an attempt to shed that extra December padding.  All it takes is some planning and mindful dedication.

  1. Schedule time for yourself.  If you don’t you won’t get any.  Use this time to move your body in your favorite way - get your sweat on, not your sweet on.
  2. Stay hydrated.  Drink water throughout the day.  Aim to drink half your body weight in ounces per day (eg: if you weigh 150 pounds, drink 75 ounces in a day).
  3. Don’t underestimate the possibility of the re-gift.  If you are given a box or a basket of goodies pass it off to a different recipient.  Bring it as a hostess gift or have it out on the food table if you are hosting your own party, donate it to charity - anything!  If you don’t feel like it would be a good choice for you, don’t choose it.  Compare when you put your hand on a hot stove, you automatically pull it away from the heat to prevent injury.  If it hurts, don’t do it.
  4. Snack nutritiously.  Mandarin oranges and pomegranates are in season at this time of year and full of anti-aging nutrients and fiber.  Always have quick access to veggie sticks or a small handful (10-12)  of almonds or walnuts.  You’ll have less room for treats and you will be less prone to seasonal infections.  Definitely have a snack before you leave for those holiday parties.

Let’s talk about some healthy holiday tips that will specifically address surviving those seasonal socials events.

  • Eat a healthy snack or meal before you leave.  Check.  We covered this.  Don’t starve yourself leading up to the event because you will have the tendency to over eat and your make your body panic and start storing everything you put in your mouth.
  • Talk a lot and listen more.  Your lips will be so busy conversing that you won’t be crunching.  Have these conversations away from the food display so that you’re not tempted to chew during the chat.
  • Choose the healthy options at the party: the veggie sticks, salsa, hummus, small amounts of cheese or nuts and of course fruit.  Before you dig in, ask yourself if you’re actually hungry or are feeling something else, like boredom, social awkwardness, nervousness or guilt.  Choose a small plate and put food on it instead of grazing - that way you know how much you’ve eaten.  Discard the plate and/or napkin when you’re finished so you don’t refill it.
  • Keep “The Deal.”  For every drink you have, refresh yourself with 2 glasses of water and for every sweet you eat, nourish yourself with 2 vegetables.  That’s “The Deal.”  Keep it.  Shake on it with a friend and hold each other accountable instead of holding each other’s rum and eggnog while you’re grabbing another butter tart.
  • If it’s a potluck celebration, bring a healthy, guilt-free dish.  Lead by example; your friends and family will thank you for your healthy holiday tips.
  • Be wary of drinking your calories.  Also, the more alcohol you drink the more likely you are to make less than ideal food choices.
  • Lastly, chew gum or keep a mint or two in your pocket to remind yourself your tongue has retired for the evening.

So you’ve blown it.  You gorged.  You don’t feel well physically or emotionally.  What now?  These healthy holiday tips might be the most important:

  1. Forgive yourself.  You’re only human.
  2. You may have fallen off the wagon and on to the dessert cart, but it is never too late to jelly roll yourself off and start over.  One lapse does not have to seal your fate.  Your progress is not destined to spiral into an over eating abyss.  One bad day, one bad hour, one bad food choice is not the end of the world.  Consciously decide to stick to your plan.
  3. Don’t starve yourself the next day to compensate for your over indulgence.  Choose fresh, nutritious foods and good, clean water.
  4. Sometimes it helps to strive not for weight loss over the holidays but weight maintenance.  At least then you’re unlikely to see a higher number on your scale.
  5. A little self reflection might prove worthwhile as well.  Ask yourself why you over-indulged.  Did you feel pressured?  Did you feel guilty?  Did you want to please someone? Keep in mind, that your health belongs to you and no one else.  You are in charge, you make the calls and no one but you decides you how you treat yourself.  Your greatest gift to yourself is practicing good health promoting behaviors, some of which I discussed in these articles: Natural Cures for Constipation and Stress Reduction Techniques.

I hope you find these healthy holiday tips practical and valuable.  I wish you and yours a safe and healthy holiday season.

Naturopathic medicine is a safe, effective and natural approach to you and your family’s health.  Naturopathic doctors can and will empower you to live a healthy lifestyle while treating and preventing disease.  Find more information on the services I offer at Arbour Wellness Centre at Nanaimo Naturopathic Doctor.

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If you or someone you know needs help with alcoholism then you might want to consider taking action. So what is the best route to go? In my opinion the ideal siutation is for the struggling alcoholic to find a rehab center that has a professional detox area and get checked in. This is the best course of action for a number of reasons:

1) Safety - it is actually very dangerous to stop drinking alcohol and in fact the withdrawal from alcohol can kill a person. This might sound counter-intuitive but it is actually safer to continue drinking alcohol than it is to go through detox unsupervised. So the best course of action is to find a full medical detox in a treatment center where they can safely bring you down off the alcohol and prevent any seizures.

2) Support - there is a ton of support to be had in a residential treatment center and this will come from the other people who are there trying to accomplish the same feat as you are. Having peer support in recovery is huge because we help each other to stay sober through sharing our experience and strength with each other.

3) Aftercare - most drug rehab centers don’t just let you go without some sort of follow up plan in place. This plan might include long term treatment, counseling, or meeting attendance. Either way you’re bound to receive some extra help and knowledge about how to overcome alcoholism when you check out of treatment.

What if someone is not willing to go to treatment? If this is true then there’s not much to be done about it. In some states there is the option to commit someone to treatment but this is usually a mistake because there will be a huge resentment created which typically acts as fuel for more drinking. What works better in this situation is to simply to let someone know that rehab is available to them if and when they decide to quit drinking.

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Getting drug addiction help will involve contacting either professional services of some sort or a 12 step treatment program. This is the program that is most popular and therefore easily located when it comes to beating an addiction. These services might include things such as in-patient treatment centers, detox wards, or even therapy or counseling. In addition to rehab, an addict could also seek help from meetings, therapy groups, or from professional counseling.

Many people might use these types of services after they leave treatment as a form of aftercare.

It can be quite a struggle to get someone else to take action and do something about their problem and ultimately you will find that we cannot really change anyone, only ourselves. But we can influence their behavior and their decisions over the long run by becoming more conscious of how we interact with them.

In particular, we need to stop enabling people if we play some role in their drug or alcohol use. This includes helping them out when they get into trouble or calling in sick for them if they miss work due to their drug use. We can make a big difference in the addict’s life by choosing not to enable their drinking or using.

Unfortunately this is what some addicts need in order to start considering the possibility of change. If a drug addict doesn’t endure heavy consequences then they probably won’t be motivated to make a change. So we eventually realize in dealing with an addict that it is best not to deny them of their pain. This does not mean that we need to go out of our way to trip them up or be mean to them - instead we just have to get out of their way and let them endure the natural consequences of their actions.

Giving genuine help to an addict is sometimes difficult because many times when we think we are helping them we are actually enabling them. The bottom line is that you should never help an addict who is trying to set their own terms - when they are ready for real change they will be willing to accept the help on your terms instead. We can still make a difference in the life of an addict but usually it is not a direct difference. Instead we must change our own behavior so as not to deny them of their pain or consequences in their life.

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