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Workplace stress is as inevitable as death and taxes. Most people will experience stress in the work place on a regular basis. Some occupations have high levels of stress associated with them. Health care and law enforcement workers, for example, experience daily stress as a part of their everyday working life. Workplace stress can be reduced by identifying those situations which trigger it and reducing your exposure to those situations.

Common workplace stress triggers include:

Rude co-workers

An unprofessional, tactless, or rude co-worker can cause a lot of stress in your working environment. Considering the number of people that we are required to interact with on a daily basis to perform the duties of our jobs it is guaranteed that a clash of personalities will eventually occur. The goal is not to let an aggravating co-worker affect your work performance.

There is a lot of be said for ignoring problem persons. Most of the behaviors we find irritating are just that, irritating, but not devastating. Learning to accept the annoying behaviors of others as out of your realm of influence and unworthy of response is crucial to your ability to perform your job’s duties.

If this tactic doesn‘t work, try discussing the problem with them directly. There are times when they may be unaware of the way their attitude comes across to others. An open and honest conversation can be a simple solution that brings down the stress level immediately.

If direct confrontation does help quell the bad behaviors contact you supervisor. State your complaints in writing in a formal tone. Make sure to explain what behaviors are bothering you and how they are affecting your work performance. Try to avoid emotional pleas and high temper complaints. Remain factual and offer supporting information and your superior will most likely side with you and assist in rectifying the situation.

Poor Management

If unprofessional co-workers are unpleasant to deal with then poor management has to be twice as stressful. The options for dealing with poor managers are more limited, but there is no reason to let poor management style give you stress or anxiety. As will co-workers ignoring the behavior is the first and most preferable option.

If that doesn’t work, then you’ll have to go over their head to someone else and tell them what’s going on. Take down some notes of your complaints and share it with an HR person or whomever is suitable to discuss them with.

Most companies do not want the hassle and expense of employing new staff. In most cases, if the offenses of the manager are valid they will take steps to correct the behaviors and resolve any problems. Do not allow poor management to cause you undue stress. Always take action.

Huge Workload

Trying to manage an unreasonable workload will certainly cause a lot of anxiety. Accept only the amount of work that you can deal with in a given period of time. Take any assistance offered by co-workers and return the favor when they need help. Working together can have far reaching rewards.

Discovering, reducing, or eliminating workplace stress where possible is a positive step towards having a fulfilling and productive work experience. Stress in the workplace is inevitable, but correctly managing stress can help prevent job burnout and increase job satisfaction.

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Speaking as one who has suffered her fair share of injuries on the journey to Black Belt I want to share some observations and suggestions that may help adults not only in Martial Arts but other forms of aggressive exercise and sports.

As I started progressing through the belt ranks I became more and more serious about training.  I wanted to be at the dojo (karate school) all the time.  I went to every class that I could during the week.  This meant I was training every single day, 5 days per week all in a row.  Big Mistake!! Eventually I was suffering with shin splints from the warm ups where endless jumping jacks and plyometrics are performed.  I also started to feel pain in my ankle and knee. The initial ankle pain eventually turned into a serious problem that took me out of the game for 6 months.  I wasn’t listening to my body’s cry for mercy.  My “older” body needed recovery time between sessions.  I cannot stress enough the importance of a day of recovery to give your tired muscles a rest between lessons or sports games.

I tended to ignore feelings of pain while pushing forward.  Eventually I found an awesome Chiropractor who practices ART (Active Release Technique).  This is a specific technique that deals with soft tissue treatment.  ART is used for athletic performance enhancement, injury prevention and management.  I found this to be very effective for treating my injuries.  My Chiropractor became my savior.  The slightest hint of pain or tightness in my body and I am in his office getting treatment.  Adults cannot ignore feelings of pain while they continue to grind their bodies through grueling sessions.  I got smart and started listening to my body – and my Chiropractor who taught me the exercises that I need to do for my individual problems.

My good friend, Fernanda the Pharmacist and Herbalist, got me going on the proper supplementation to aide in keeping my joints and muscles healthy.  She recommended glucosamine as it’s needed to make and repair joint cartilage.  The cartilage serves as the cushion at the joint surface.  She also recommended MSM (methylsulfonylmethane) which provides sulfur making it a vital building block of joints, cartilage, skin, hair and nails.  She suggested Celadrin which is a blend of fatty acids that enhances the cells membranes and their integrity for efficient functionality.  Celadrin prevents inflammation while restoring fluid to cushion bones and joints promoting flexibility and mobility.

Lots of good clean water and learning what foods to consume before and after training sessions is also essential for performance and a healthy body.

Following proper recovery time, athletic injury prevention and management techniques, consuming good supplements and proper nutrition can all go a very long way in keeping your body healthy and therefore less prone to injury.

Just as we were taught to read and write and all about fire and water safety so it should be that we must learn to protect ourselves.  I consider my Martial Arts training a real life skill.  It seems inconceivable and foolish to me that my woman friends have no clue how to protect themselves in the event of an attack nor do they think it’s important enough to learn how.   This is a skill, in my opinion, that should be taught to every child and in particular to girls. 

When I was pregnant with my daughter I remember thinking how am I going to let this beloved child of mine out of my site.  I wondered how I was ever going to let go and let my child walk to the bus stop or go to the park with friends or do any of the many things that young teens want to do without parental supervision.  How could I allow these things without worrying frantically about safety?  I know anything can happen these days but the fact that she was trained in Martial Arts allowed me to breathe far more easily than I would have otherwise. 

I am so thrilled that my daughter, also trained in Martial Arts, was brought up with this skill.  She has never known any different than being able to protect herself.  It is second nature to her.  When she reached the age where her and her friends wanted to walk to a park or to a store her friend’s parents would always ask if she was going.  If the answer was yes then they were allowed.  If not, they were not allowed to go.  It amazed me that these parents relied on my daughter to exhibit common sense and the ability to protect while they never considered ensuring their kids learned these skills.  These parents were always generous in their compliments on my daughter’s common sense and her Martial Arts abilities but somehow they never considered this for their own kids.

A comment that I hear over and over at the dojo (karate school) is in regard to the teenage karate students.  The comment is inevitably what great kids they are.  Not only are they keeping physically active while they are learning to protect and defend themselves but they are learning life lessons in respect, morals and self discipline. How many of our children have positive real life role models?  The Sensei (teacher) and the instructors at the dojo are terrific role models for kids.  The kids meet with these role models on average 3 to 4 times per week.  What better place could they be spending time?

For adults, there is no better way to keep in shape while we learn to protect ourselves.  Many of the adults that I know at my dojo joined the program because their children were already students.  For me this was also the case.  In fact, my husband was feeling so left out while my daughter and I continually discussed and practiced our Martial Arts training that he too became a student.  Shotokan Karate has proved to be an incredible bond between ourselves and our daughter.  We are a Martial Arts family and I wouldn’t want it any other way.  Watch for my blog on Adults Avoiding Injury In Martial Arts.